Just a few moments ago I came across a video on youtube about defining black beauty. I will not post it here because I refuse to give this man any more shine at my expense. In his title he asks the question of What makes Flava Flav ugly? Now to most people this would be a common sense question. There are a vast majority of people who consider this man unattractive (your personal taste) or UGLY (the negative way of seeing things and a very clear attack on a person). Now me personally have seen some pictures (a magazine cover shoot) of Flav were he looks simply like an average man but on his show, his general public persona, he spends alot of time making funny, weird, dare I say ugly faces.
I do not care about who anybody is if they are out looking like a black joker intentionally or unintentionally they will not be found attractive by the general public. Now he toned this craziness down on the new Sister 2 Sister magazine shoot because he was representing his family and I could see why a woman would see him, the way God made him, attractive. He created a gorgeous child with his fiancee and I wish their cute little family much success.
Now me personally find many different types of men attractive based on how they look and carry themselves as an individual. I do not care what the general public thinks. To me this is attractive:
This does not warrant my attention:
<<<^^^ Millions of women love these men and will probably hate my guts for not understanding the wonderfulgorgeousamazingspectacularness that makes up these two men.
But of course beauty is not black and white nor is it reserved for men in my eyes::
^^^^ All 5 above are very sexy and all very different looking.
My point is that an attractive person can come in all different shades, nationalities and races. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know that is very cliche but very true. One persons trash is another persons treasure. Very common and often said but it was not made up out of false hopes. Be the best person you can be with what God, your God, your parents or nature (to cover everyone’s beliefs) gave you.
Just because you do not like how someone looks gives you no right to call them an ugly person. How do you feel when you have had that said to you? I bet it was not a feeling of bliss or happiness. What would you do if someone said that to your children? Do people believe that it is okay because they are flawless because everyone (a large majority at least) loves them? Put positive energy out into the world and it will come back to you (it is called KARMA and it is real and can be a real bitch if you do not honor her!!) What happens when you experience too much heartache, or people no longer favor you, or something tragic happens to your precious face or body? Will you humble yourself then? Just something for the public to ponder. We are all humans and there is beauty in all of us all everyone has to do is be true to themselves and they will be found attractive to someone because WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
Lets take Megan Fox (a girl you can find almost anywhere in the world) for example,
For about a year now the general public has been fawning over this average typical looking woman. Transformers has made a hot star. She got big headed feeding off of her own hype and broke up with her boyfriend of five years because she feels she is too young (read: too hot and popular) for marriage. This man was with her when she was on Hope & Faith (you know the show she was on for about 3 years looking exactly like she does ^^post Transformers). But I guess being with him was acceptable when nobody gave a fuck about you. What will she do when the Transformer trilogy is over , a year passes and she is back to being a nobody. Will she go back to her childhood fantasy, Brian Austin Green? Maybe she will bring more cheap attention to herself by actually trying to make that mostly nude movie (read: PORNO) she spoke of earlier this week. Or will she end up like Britney Spears, one of America’s previous pinup, superstar, super hot girls?
Personally, I love Black Men when it comes to those who I choose to date exclusively. A part of this is because they are the majority of who and what I know and because of my personal beliefs (more on that at a later date). This however, has nothing to do with who catches my eye in that sense because I do not discriminate visually.
